Some pastors shame the Saints when they struggle with forgiving an unrepentant child molester. I don't think they are seeing things from a biblical perspective. I believe you’re only responsible to forgive if they are repentant. To forgive without repentance is folly in my opinion. If they are not repentant don't forgive them. Let God take vengeance. Jesus says to forgive the person if they ask for forgiveness up to seventy times seven. I agree with Him. I forgave someone when he repented with tears after he got saved. But, I really believe if the molester is caught in the act of hurting someone stop him by any means necessary. Even if you have to kill him to save a child's life. If you are unjustly taken to jail and given the death penalty you will be crowned with the martyrs of old. We are only forgiven by God if we acknowledge we are sinners in need of a Savior. Some people won't share my opinion but I’m okay with that. God speaks to his individual children differently based on personal convictions brought on, whether it's by false teachers, or inspired by the Word of God. You need to show righteous anger towards that unrepentant abuser. Yell at them. Tell them how much they hurt you. Tell them how it messed you up. Tell them they need to repent and be washed in the blood of Jesus and warn them of God’s Holy Furious wrath that awaits them if they don’t repent.
Love, Rosemi