Dear Kitchen Saints,
Good Morning! We will get to have Baby Rose today and we are happy about that. David and Tiff take care of an apartment complex. David does most of the work but Tiff needs to help clean today. Tiff has become a stay at home mother. I am so happy about this. We still help out with Baby Rose about once a week. David is learning to repair the appliances at the apartments and does remodeling, etc. So the kids are doing good. Tiff does paperwork and has an office at home. But she can care for Baby and does a good job.
Anyway, I am making chili for the day. It’s only 6:30 and I am making soup. I don’t make it hot and Baby will eat it, too. Also I have made some fresh yogurt and it’s nice and thick. Jim will buy some fresh fruit and we will have the yogurt. My favorite would be a can of stewed peaches with bananas and the yogurt on the top.
I think if I could give you one household tip that has helped me a lot through the years it would be to get up early in the morning and start a meal for the day. I used to always do that when all the children were home. This way, if your day gets busy, then you always have a meal ready and you don’t have to think about it. And often on a Saturday, if we had to do errands, we most always took the kids with us. Well, of course they are hungry right when ya get home at noon. And I think often if we have a meal on the stove, then the family doesn’t resort to junk food or fast food.
One quick meal I used to make for the family that is simple is just Sloppy Joes. I would just fry up a pound of hamburger and drain it and put in a can of tomato soup. My kids liked it just plain like that. Or you could add mustard, onions, green pepper, and spices. Also, for another meal, I would just fry hamburger and drain it. I would cook it in my big cast iron dutch oven with the bale handle. Then I would add vegetables, whatever I had. And over the top I would pour a can of tomato soup or any soup I had. I would dilute it with water, about 3 cans of water. Then just put this back in the oven and let it bake on low. This way, if you have to go to the store or whatever, then you have a nice comfort food to come back home to.
My grown children miss these soups and stews and often talk about them. Dan says he doesn’t like for me to make soup in the crock pot as he is used to the big black pot on the stove. Cast iron does give food a different flavor. I like it, too.
And then I always had homemade bread to eat our meals with. If it wasn’t a yeast bread, I would make baking powder biscuits, cornbread, or a quick bread. Peanut Butter Bread was good. I haven’t made that in a long time. The quick breads are easy to make. I loved them, as I didn’t get out my mixer for these as you just stir them up like you would muffins.
I enjoy stirring things up in my bowl with a favorite spoon. I have a nice collection of crock bowls and also I collect the speckled enamel spoons. I have all sizes and I have the blues, blacks, and reds. This is what I enjoy looking for at garage sales in the warmer months. I don’t like to get an electric mixer out when the family is all home as you can’t hear anything when it is on. Also you can’t cook and mix things up and talk at the same time. I like to visit and teach my daughters and daughter in laws what I am doing as I cook. And they give me some modern tips, too, which I love.
One of my favorite kitchen chores is when Papa and me are here alone in the evening. And I will stand in the kitchen by myself and stir gravy. If it’s quiet in the house, I love to stir gravy on the stove. But if the house is busy and I have to run back and forth, I don’t enjoy the stirring. It’s too hectic. With gravy, you have to stand there and stir and if ya don’t it will get lumpy. After I fry meat, I just add about a fourth cup of flour to the skillet. I smash it in with my spoon. Then I add about 3 cups of milk or water and stir.
Here’s a story I don’t know if I told you all yet and it I was so funny.
Well, when the kids were all home, I had a hard time keepin’ food on the table and the kids all fed. Anyway, I had decided to buy a beef roast. It was small but all meat and I planned to slice it thin so we would all have a small slice. I had made mashed potatoes and gravy and it was a nice meal. So at the last, I called the kids to get the milk on and to help set the table. So I put the roast on a nice plate and began to slice it. I took a little piece of fat off and laid it beside the plate and decided I needed a sharper knife. So John was about 12 and was standing near me. And I said to him, “Here, John, give this to the dog,” meaning the little piece of fat I had stuck beside the plate. John misunderstood, as he is a dreamer and an artist, and he gave the family beef roast to the dog. So I go to the kitchen to get the sharper knife and come back to cut the meat and it was gone?
I was hysterical! I am like, “Where is the meat?” John’s answer was, “Well, Mom, you said to give it to the dog.” I was at the table standing and I turned around to see if Jim heard this. I thought, “He will kill the boy.” I mean, we rarely had a piece of meat and now it is gone. Well, our dog Daisey loved it — she ate the whole thing in no time. But here I am, with all the fixings for a beef roast, and we have no meat in the platter. I just went in the living room and told Jim, “John accidentally gave the dog our dinner.” He took it well and didn’t kill John. It’s a wonder! But, anyway, we just ate the potatoes and gravy and went on our way. What a scream!
Then after that, about a month later, I was fixing a small chunk of ham in the oven with potatoes and carrots. I was checking the dinner and had it on the oven door. Daisey came along and snuck the ham out of the roasting pan. But I caught her and yanked it back out of her mouth and washed the ham off and put it back in the pot. I thought, “I am not goin’ through that again.” I didn’t tell the family what I did. They would have killed me! We fed our dog and she didn’t need to do that stuff. She was fat and healthy and lived to be 15 yrs old. But she was half pig and loved to eat. But back then, in the old days, tryin’ to keep food on the table was an all day occupation.
One time we were goin’ to visit Jim’s sister for the day. We were to be gone the whole day. I told John to change the cat litter as we had two cats. Well, I had put the cat litter outside as it had stunk. But I wanted fresh litter in the pan before we left for our trip. So John goes out and empties the cat litter and fills it with new litter. On the way up to Aunt Mary’s house, my mind is racing and hoping we turned out all the lights in the house, etc. etc. So I am asking the kids, “Did you do this and that as I had told you?” Then I ask John if he had done what he was to do with the cat litter. Then fear grips my heart. “Now, John, you brought the cat litter in the house for the cats — you didn’t leave it outside, did you?” He says, “Well, the cat litter box was outside, so I cleaned it out and left it out there.” So the cats were inside and the cat litter was outside for the day.
This was a regular life for me when I was raising John. He was always dreaming of firecrackers and inventions. He is a wonderful artist. The boy can fix anything. But he tried my patience as his mother. He wouldn’t wear underwear to school under his jeans, as he said Indians didn’t wear underwear. I told him, “Well, this Indian will.”
In the evening, a lot of times before I had the kids to come in to help with supper, all the neighbor kids would come over and play hide and seek with our kids. So the house would be kinda quiet in the late afternoon. So Jim would be watchin’ TV and I would run into Jim and say, “Honey, MUTE the TV — I think I heard the kids on the roof.” So Jim would quick mute the TV and we would stand in silence.
Joys of Housewifery
So, anyway, we would try to catch the kids on the roof and then get after them. Jim would holler, “This is why my roof is always leakin’ because of you kids getting on the roof!” Our kids and the neighbor kids. Boy, Jim would he be mad.
Another time, my nerves were shot tryin’ to keep up with my kids. So I got up really early one summer morning and just decided to go outside with my cup of coffee and look at the garden in peace, as I thought all the kids were sleeping. So I barely got out the door and was heading for the garden and a lit firecracker exploded right in front of me. Jimmy had gotten up early and was lighting firecrackers and throwin’ them over the house. He didn’t know I was in the back yard.
Well, I should have known better than to have four boys. What was I thinking? We had two girls, too, thank the Lordm and they were always helping me put out firecrackers.
Jimmy was in the Navy and came home with these bottle rockets when he came home on leave. Everything would be quiet in the house and I would hear a bottle rocket go off by the side door. Jimmy would shoot them off when I wasn’t looking and then keep the same conversation going on with me in the dining room. I thought someone else was shooting them off. (Hoping, anyway.) He would shoot them through the snow. And he had some that would go off underwater.
Then we had this Catholic school fair and they had this beer tent? It was right up by our house and folks would get drunk and try to park their cars by our house. So for about 3 days in the summer, we had a lot of noise and drunks walking by our house. One night Jimmy got up in the tree by our house. He was about 16? And he had this pellet gun and if folks were really drunk when they walked by, Jimmy would shoot ‘em in the butt with his gun. They didn’t know where the shot came from as Jimmy was hiding good. Then he had this gorilla mask that he would wear and he rigged it up so it would light up with this switch he held in his hand. So if someone was really drunk, he would jump out of the tree at night and land in front of the drunk and scare the livin’ daylights out of ‘em.
Really, it was terrible as the drunks would pee in our neighborhood yards, etc. So we were all tryin’ to discourage them from parking around our homes. Aunt Toot’s husband is black. And he said all he would have to do is sit in our yard on a lawn chair and all the white folks wouldn’t bother us. “As everyone knows Black folks steal hubcaps.” Oh, what funny days those were. Luther was always good for a laugh. He was supposed to have died a month ago but hasn’t and is getting better as he goes.
Well, Jim is up and I guess I should go.